I’ve only done three smart things in my life and one of them, 29 years ago was to buy a one bedroom pied a terre. My husband passed away 5 months ago and NY gives me joy every single day. People smile at me here, admire my hip LA clothing style, and I feel their NY energy which I reciprocate. I’m trying to renovate an old NY kitchen ( gas vs electric) gulp but with all the incredible takeout food I will thrive and flourish here. Figgy
Figgy, thank you for sharing this beautiful note (it really touched me!). I’m so sorry to hear about your husband’s passing. It means a lot that New York continues to offer you moments of joy, connection, and style (I can only imagine how fabulous your LA looks must be on these city streets!).
As for the kitchen: gas or electric, the takeout scene alone could sustain a lifetime of delicious meals! Sending you so much love as you renovate and settle into a space that reflects you best. You’ve got this, rooting for you!
Love this! I’m Harrison, an ex fine dining industry line cook. My stack "The Secret Ingredient" adapts hit restaurant recipes (mostly NYC and L.A.) for easy home cooking.
Antonina, LOVE this particular post as a Washingtonian, my dream continues to be a pied’ a terre in Manhattan! Once my daughter moved to NYC to attend graduate school at NYU, I completely embraced the City That Never Sleeps. Her graduation was held at BAM and luncheon following at the CP Boathouse. The Boathouse became our favorite restaurant for special occasions. My daughter moved around the city. I helped with all moves and enjoyed each neighborhood!
15 years ago The DaVinci Hotel in Midtown became my NYC digs and I return as often as possible. Applejacks Diner two blocks from Ed Sullivan Theatre is my “go to” for a sumptuous breakfast and friendly vibe. Early June my young granddaughter and I will spend several days in the City. She was born in Westchester, but now lives in Colorado. That said, my mountain granddaughter thinks of herself as a New Yorker. I have trained her well 🚖 🗽.
What a beautiful message—thank you for sharing it with me! I can feel the love you have for New York in every line! I love that your dream is a pied-à-terre in Manhattan (same!) and that you’ve built such special memories here with your daughter—and now your granddaughter, too. BAM and the Central Park Boathouse make for the most perfect graduation day pairing, and I love that Applejack Diner is still your go-to spot. There’s something so comforting about having a “usual” in a city that’s always changing.
Early June will be such a magical time to visit with your granddaughter. I have no doubt she’ll carry those NYC memories with her for a lifetime—she’s in good hands!!
Two years ago the same granddaughter joined me in Manhattan for our first “Eloise at the Plaza Redux.” I had the pleasure to curate a delightful, child friendly itinerary. Now I am in the process of upgrading the activities this Go Round.
My son-in-law has business in the City so we take advantage when he comes to the East Coast. Over the past few years I make regular visits to Denver, as well.
Antonina, please know I very much enjoy your postings. They transport me back to NYC which always lifts my spirits.
Sharron, this made me smile! I love hearing about your Eloise adventures with your granddaughter (what a special tradition!) and how you're continuing to make new memories together in the city. It means so much that my posts help bring a bit of New York back to you — truly the best compliment! Can't wait to share more with you!
Without actually being able to articulate it…this has been how I’ve been living my life since I “retired” to Washington State, specifically Port Townsend, in 2016. It’s all the small things that the author mentioned, and more. While I don’t have much in the way of assets, I have what I need and what sustains me. And that, my friend, is priceless.
That’s so beautifully said, Robbie! It really is the small things, isn’t it? The grounding routines, the sense of contentment.
Funny enough, I've been to Port Townsend (I got engaged at Hurricane Ridge in Olympic National Park!), we stopped by the town for lunch afterward, it's a very charming place.
Thank you for sharing this. It’s a lovely reminder of what really matters!
I agree... NYC is about the little stuff. Every day when you leave your apartment, it's an adventure! I have so many great memories of life there (the Chinese restaurant where they would serve free wine and orange slices after dinner; waking up on the morning of the marathon - I lived on First Ave; sitting in Central Park on a beautiful afternoon; exploring Brooklyn; even riding the bus - I used to tell my kids about it when they were really little). I wish I took more pictures - no iphones when I lived there - but I really enjoy yours!
I loved reading this — it’s exactly that, isn’t it? The small everyday moments that somehow become the best memories. Thank you for sharing those memories (free wine and orange slices?! Need more info!!), and I’m so happy my photos can help bring some of it back. I also hope your kiddos enjoy the city as much as you do, that's half the fun!
Antonina, our NYC exchange is lovely! One of the highlights from the previous adventure was a magical visit to Alice’s Tea Cup UWS as both of us were sprinkled with fairy 🧚 dust. Of course, I splurged on a carriage ride through CP and the bike driver actually delivered us to the DaVinci Hotel as I needed to pick up more cash!!
Please let me know the advantages of a paid subscription to New York Dearest, GREAT title.
Fairy dust at Alice’s Tea Cup and a carriage ride through Central Park?! That’s the kind of story that belongs in a book. I love hearing how magical the city is for you.
Thank you so much for asking about the paid subscription. Paid subscribers receive an exclusive post every Friday (often deep dives into seasonal guides, personal essays, or insider tips that don’t appear anywhere else).
You’ll also get access to my private library of travel resources, like my 30-page 4-Day NYC Christmas Itinerary (which sold out last year!) and my 15 favorite bites in the city. And maybe most fun of all, you’ll have direct access to me for trip planning help and local recommendations (although in your case, I feel like I should be taking notes from you!!).
I’m so grateful you’re here, whether as a free or paid subscriber. Sharing the joy of NYC feels like such a privilege!
Antonina, SO APPRECIATE your speedy responses! That’s how I roll, too, as I am very much in the moment. The Fall UES sojourn was a DREAM come true and only deepened my desire for MORE NYC. Photos are my diary WHEREVER I go! Feels like I’m a much older version of you and a stronger connection is prudent as I do feel the Urgency of Now!
I love that you use photos as a diary too, I'm the same way! That’s exactly what these roundups have become for me. And yes to the Urgency of Now — beautifully said. I’m so glad we’re connected here!
What a great interesting article. We used to go there a lot for work & it was like going home
The man in the corner bodega knew what kind of sandwich my husband wanted. Tourists only think of it as a big city. But it really it is about all the great little neighborhoods
Thank you so much for this lovely comment! I love that the bodega guy knew your husband’s sandwich order, I think that's so cool.
You’re so right: The neighborhoods really do feel like little worlds of their own. I'm so glad this piece brought back some of those memories for you! ❤️
I wholeheartedly agree 🤍 And whilst I don’t live in New York (and potentially never will), there is something so precious to be found in slowing down and noticing the everyday moments, no matter where it is we call home.
I completely agree, it’s not just about where we live, but how we live. There’s something empowering about learning to notice the little things. Whether in New York or anywhere else, small everyday moments really do make a place feel like home. Thank you so much for sharing your sentiments!
I’ve only done three smart things in my life and one of them, 29 years ago was to buy a one bedroom pied a terre. My husband passed away 5 months ago and NY gives me joy every single day. People smile at me here, admire my hip LA clothing style, and I feel their NY energy which I reciprocate. I’m trying to renovate an old NY kitchen ( gas vs electric) gulp but with all the incredible takeout food I will thrive and flourish here. Figgy
Figgy, thank you for sharing this beautiful note (it really touched me!). I’m so sorry to hear about your husband’s passing. It means a lot that New York continues to offer you moments of joy, connection, and style (I can only imagine how fabulous your LA looks must be on these city streets!).
As for the kitchen: gas or electric, the takeout scene alone could sustain a lifetime of delicious meals! Sending you so much love as you renovate and settle into a space that reflects you best. You’ve got this, rooting for you!
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Antonina, LOVE this particular post as a Washingtonian, my dream continues to be a pied’ a terre in Manhattan! Once my daughter moved to NYC to attend graduate school at NYU, I completely embraced the City That Never Sleeps. Her graduation was held at BAM and luncheon following at the CP Boathouse. The Boathouse became our favorite restaurant for special occasions. My daughter moved around the city. I helped with all moves and enjoyed each neighborhood!
15 years ago The DaVinci Hotel in Midtown became my NYC digs and I return as often as possible. Applejacks Diner two blocks from Ed Sullivan Theatre is my “go to” for a sumptuous breakfast and friendly vibe. Early June my young granddaughter and I will spend several days in the City. She was born in Westchester, but now lives in Colorado. That said, my mountain granddaughter thinks of herself as a New Yorker. I have trained her well 🚖 🗽.
Sharron Caplan
What a beautiful message—thank you for sharing it with me! I can feel the love you have for New York in every line! I love that your dream is a pied-à-terre in Manhattan (same!) and that you’ve built such special memories here with your daughter—and now your granddaughter, too. BAM and the Central Park Boathouse make for the most perfect graduation day pairing, and I love that Applejack Diner is still your go-to spot. There’s something so comforting about having a “usual” in a city that’s always changing.
Early June will be such a magical time to visit with your granddaughter. I have no doubt she’ll carry those NYC memories with her for a lifetime—she’s in good hands!!
Two years ago the same granddaughter joined me in Manhattan for our first “Eloise at the Plaza Redux.” I had the pleasure to curate a delightful, child friendly itinerary. Now I am in the process of upgrading the activities this Go Round.
My son-in-law has business in the City so we take advantage when he comes to the East Coast. Over the past few years I make regular visits to Denver, as well.
Antonina, please know I very much enjoy your postings. They transport me back to NYC which always lifts my spirits.
My best,
Sharron Caplan
Sharron, this made me smile! I love hearing about your Eloise adventures with your granddaughter (what a special tradition!) and how you're continuing to make new memories together in the city. It means so much that my posts help bring a bit of New York back to you — truly the best compliment! Can't wait to share more with you!
This was such a beautiful lens into the New York City I miss most. Thank you for sharing! ❤️
It's my pleasure, Reiko! Thank you for reading!
Without actually being able to articulate it…this has been how I’ve been living my life since I “retired” to Washington State, specifically Port Townsend, in 2016. It’s all the small things that the author mentioned, and more. While I don’t have much in the way of assets, I have what I need and what sustains me. And that, my friend, is priceless.
That’s so beautifully said, Robbie! It really is the small things, isn’t it? The grounding routines, the sense of contentment.
Funny enough, I've been to Port Townsend (I got engaged at Hurricane Ridge in Olympic National Park!), we stopped by the town for lunch afterward, it's a very charming place.
Thank you for sharing this. It’s a lovely reminder of what really matters!
I agree... NYC is about the little stuff. Every day when you leave your apartment, it's an adventure! I have so many great memories of life there (the Chinese restaurant where they would serve free wine and orange slices after dinner; waking up on the morning of the marathon - I lived on First Ave; sitting in Central Park on a beautiful afternoon; exploring Brooklyn; even riding the bus - I used to tell my kids about it when they were really little). I wish I took more pictures - no iphones when I lived there - but I really enjoy yours!
I loved reading this — it’s exactly that, isn’t it? The small everyday moments that somehow become the best memories. Thank you for sharing those memories (free wine and orange slices?! Need more info!!), and I’m so happy my photos can help bring some of it back. I also hope your kiddos enjoy the city as much as you do, that's half the fun!
Antonina, our NYC exchange is lovely! One of the highlights from the previous adventure was a magical visit to Alice’s Tea Cup UWS as both of us were sprinkled with fairy 🧚 dust. Of course, I splurged on a carriage ride through CP and the bike driver actually delivered us to the DaVinci Hotel as I needed to pick up more cash!!
Please let me know the advantages of a paid subscription to New York Dearest, GREAT title.
Merci beaucoup, Antonina.
Fairy dust at Alice’s Tea Cup and a carriage ride through Central Park?! That’s the kind of story that belongs in a book. I love hearing how magical the city is for you.
Thank you so much for asking about the paid subscription. Paid subscribers receive an exclusive post every Friday (often deep dives into seasonal guides, personal essays, or insider tips that don’t appear anywhere else).
You’ll also get access to my private library of travel resources, like my 30-page 4-Day NYC Christmas Itinerary (which sold out last year!) and my 15 favorite bites in the city. And maybe most fun of all, you’ll have direct access to me for trip planning help and local recommendations (although in your case, I feel like I should be taking notes from you!!).
I’m so grateful you’re here, whether as a free or paid subscriber. Sharing the joy of NYC feels like such a privilege!
Antonina, SO APPRECIATE your speedy responses! That’s how I roll, too, as I am very much in the moment. The Fall UES sojourn was a DREAM come true and only deepened my desire for MORE NYC. Photos are my diary WHEREVER I go! Feels like I’m a much older version of you and a stronger connection is prudent as I do feel the Urgency of Now!
I love that you use photos as a diary too, I'm the same way! That’s exactly what these roundups have become for me. And yes to the Urgency of Now — beautifully said. I’m so glad we’re connected here!
great article :)
as always say to you: thanks for share your thoughts and experiences!
I keep this phrase as my favorite, "What a privilege to call this place home."
cheers from Argentina
Thank you so much! Your kind words always mean a lot to me. I'm so glad that line resonated with you, that keeps me going! Cheers!
What a great interesting article. We used to go there a lot for work & it was like going home
The man in the corner bodega knew what kind of sandwich my husband wanted. Tourists only think of it as a big city. But it really it is about all the great little neighborhoods
Thanks for all your experiences
Thank you so much for this lovely comment! I love that the bodega guy knew your husband’s sandwich order, I think that's so cool.
You’re so right: The neighborhoods really do feel like little worlds of their own. I'm so glad this piece brought back some of those memories for you! ❤️
I wholeheartedly agree 🤍 And whilst I don’t live in New York (and potentially never will), there is something so precious to be found in slowing down and noticing the everyday moments, no matter where it is we call home.
I completely agree, it’s not just about where we live, but how we live. There’s something empowering about learning to notice the little things. Whether in New York or anywhere else, small everyday moments really do make a place feel like home. Thank you so much for sharing your sentiments!